words & turds: can i be a good girlfriend even though i feel so many feelings?

Yet another insightful perspective on the lasting effects of a fundamentally racist, misogynistic culture.  Having just written that sentence, I was struck by how painfully reductive it is.  Sara is a woman I don’t know, but I have been following on the internet for some time now and is a woman whom I find fiercely intelligent, funny and beautiful.  Therefore, my appreciation of the perceptiveness of this piece of writing runs alongside my desire to hug a woman I don’t know because she is struggling with an issue that has been foisted upon her by men who look, speak and quite possibly act a lot like me.

When I went to reblog this post I wasn’t even going to put anything before it.  Ah well.

wordsandturds:

so, as you know, i am in my first “serious” (?) relationship and this has really made me examine my insecurities and fears as a sexual partner, a woman (of color) and a significant other.

a few days ago, i felt strangely about being an asian woman in my relationship. to be clear: my boyfriend…

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  1. femme-a-lenvers reblogged this from wordsandturds and added:
    most important things I’ve read...last four months. Thank you.
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  3. tundrakatiebean reblogged this from theroseinbloom and added:
    This is so true, for every woman. This society is retarded.
  4. theroseinbloom reblogged this from saezutte and added:
    THIS. Oh my god. Heartbreaking.
  5. saezutte reblogged this from wordsandturds and added:
    mother-fucking THIS,...describe the woman society has taught
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  10. subtlecluster reblogged this from wordsandturds and added:
    Succint. Beautiful. Accurate. Sara, I love...social-justice-y you’re getting lately :)
  11. warm reblogged this from wordsandturds and added:
    all. monday night seems...designated ‘freak out’ session regarding
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  13. curvesthewords reblogged this from wordsandturds and added:
    THIS. ALL OF THIS. So much love...who wrote it. (No, I haven’t met her irl,
  14. joelcottrell reblogged this from wordsandturds and added:
    Yet another insightful perspective on...fundamentally racist, misogynistic culture. Having...
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    Growing up I was always called...mestiza, was praised by


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